In this life.: Getting Chloe back.

I get Chloe back tomorrow,
I get Custody turned over to me again.
Because once again her 'mother' has fucked up.
Her parents are completely incompetant.
&I have lost respect for them completely.

Let me tell you why.
So im taking Chloe back because my step-sister, her 'mom'
(and i use this term losely)
Is not equipt to raise her,she lost her apartment, doesnt have a job,
her husband doesnt have a job....

Chloe's father"another lose term' refuses to be involved, help, send money, child support ect...and isnt stable himself.
They're staying randomly with unsafe people(bad situation for children) they have no money, theres drugs, alcohol, violence around.
Food stamps cut them off, housing cut her off. she uses her the child support money from her other daughters father for drugs.
she has now lost custody of her other kids because their Dad's stepped in.
(Mind you she'd got 3 kids. by three different guys, and wasnt married to any of them-really classy.)

and now i am doing them same.(i'd have done it sooner if
i knew it was that bad)
i have raised Chloe for a full two years before
this from ages 3-5 she is now 7.
I gave her back at age 5 because at that time there was some stability.

since then. Addison came into this world.
& Stu and I moved away for his job, and i thought Chloe was safe.
i visited, taking her every now and then.
Well my sister married some guy finally
(another deadbeat who cant keep a job though)
and then everything started going downhill...

I cannot respect her.
she expects to live for free.
she thinks(& has said) the government owes her because shes had 3 children.
(thank god she got tied,cut & burned)
she expects, housing and food stamps.
spends her daughter's child support money on drugs.
so the kids go without.
& they dont have clothes or shoes that fit.
muchless a bed to sleep in. and move constantly. so no stability.
her youngest has autism and has a form of being mentally challenged.
(its not downs. but im not sure the exact type he's got.)

We have decieded that when we get Chloe back this time and she signs over temp. custody back to me that we are not going to send her back,and if she challenges us, we will go to court and file against her.
she wouldnt win because of the lack of stability and drug use.

Chloe is 7 now. she's at a vital point in her life,
she needs to have stability, to feel safe again.
she deserves to be happy and thriving. its not fair to her.
she didnt do anything wrong and shouldnt have to live that way.
Its not her fault. i feel so guilty for ever giving her back to begin with.
but when i did, her mother was clean and stable(it obviously didnt last)

To top things off her "mother" also has been lowering her self esteem.
She chopped off her long beautiful curly hair and Chloe didnt want her hair cut, nor was there a need for it, Chloe told me via phone that she feels ugly now. because she was told that she looked less pretty with it cut, by her mom.

she smiled, at least. June 2010

So Chloe's at the age where she's losing teeth.
and her mom told her that the tooth fairy is too broke to give her anything
for her teeth.
I feel so bad for her, she'll have much better here.

heres the newest missing tooth pic.
she lost two there now. like a bunny.
July 2010

she also isnt allowed to be a prep because she doesnt want "a prep daughter"
Chloe likes girlie, pink, "preppy" things. and she was told she could only like "rocker" things. o.O who the hell tells a 7yr old that kind of thing.?!
seriously. thats crazy....!

Anyhow, i have had to spend 270 for the flight.
and then afterwards we are going to walmart to buy her clothes,
shoes and things.
& then ive got to get her re-ajusted to life with us.
Hopefully things go smoothly.
I think the hardest part with be instilling manners in her once again,
re-adjusting her sass mouth and getting her on a schedual.*sighs*

Ive already started shopping for her online trying to make sure she'll have everything.
Ive bought a bunch of clothes, some accesories, hair bows, and made a tutu for her, she deserves to have fun too. she's a little girl and she only gets to be one for a limited amount of time. so im going to make sure she enjoys it.
My childhood wasnt the greatest, i want hers to be better.
she's a good girl,she deserves it.

Some Photos:

Chloe-age 3- 2006